Sometimes we blame other people when things get wrong, but did we ever think before that whether we are the other people that someone else had blamed on? Sometimes we people scold the other for doing things that aren't rite, but in the end we are the one that deserve a scolding too. Sometimes, we scold someone because he/she hurts someone, but did u/we realise that u r the one who is hurting other people as well. Sometimes, we ask/say people "CANT U PUT YOURSELF IN SOMEONE ELSE SHOES" , but did we put ourselves in someone else shoes when we met the same situation? Sometimes we say "why judge, but sometimes we are the one who are judging, or worse we judge more than the one we scold.
Ya, i'm saying all these thing like i'm a saint or i'm perfect, but i'm not, i'm just trying to say a please stop saying that u are selfless, keep asking why judge, why cant u put yourself in others' shoes and etc etc. Or try to say less of these. I know that we cant be possibly not saying all these cause i'm also doing and because we are all human beings. But the main thing that i cant stand is people keep think that they are the one being so reasonable(which i think that NOOOOOOO) but they dun know(i guess, cause the words coming out from their mouth or actions that they do doesn't shows that they know at all.)
I'm not trying to badmouth just that someone but just everyone, all human beings are selfish, everyone got to be selfish, if not how could be human beings. Don't ever say that u had never be selfish before, cause u will be lying. If we, human beings are not selfish, how could we excel, how could we fight for the things we want, how could we achieve anything, how could we do the things we want. There must be a time that we are selfish, just admit it, cause no one in this world is perfect. We are human beings that have feelings, thoughts.
So if u r one who keep on saying that u are'selfless' please stop, cause there is a time for u n I to be selfish for once or twice or more,if not in this current society we could not survive.
For example, u are just being selfish when you:
- Expect your friend to accompany u to buy things when he/she are tired a not, and worst u know he/she was really tired.
- Don't want to be alone, you ask your friend to accompany u to take MRT(train) when she could have gone for a shorter way rather than going a big round.
- Are late, you felt that 'oh is alright for others to wait for me, is just a few mins(but actually no) and u curse someone for being late(esp bs).
- Say that other people being unreasonable, but u r the one as well.
- always assume that people can't make it and never ask he/her out but WHEN people assume you can't make it, you say that cant they ask?
- Blame others a lot more when u are in the wrong.
there is a lot more, but here are some that i can think of right now.
So let's just accept the fact that we are all human beings and no matter what we got to be selfish for that sometimes, because in this world now most people are fake. But of course let's try to be a better person by being to be selfless and try not to harm/hurt others as much as possible. Treat the other people well, is treating yourself well. Don't always try to be selfless just because u wanted to have a somewhat of' 'repay' cause by doing so u will never ever know the feeling of being happy through selfless.
