Xuan's 9th Story: i dun get it

Today had been the 4th of school after the "long" break of june holiday. Ugh, srsly i dun get why some ppl in my school or outside or anyone else dun get the importance of study. Well, im not the top student or whatever but the fact that u said u wanted to do well and u r afraid that u do not do well, thn why are u not making that bit of effort? I'm a lazy student and usually dun take the inicetive to revise my work or comleting my hw but i will try to make myself do do something. 

Also, i dun get why that some ppl said that they wanted to score well and they ask others to teach them but when the others want to teach them they are not making a effort to find a place/time to study. Or saying that u have something n when we already have a date to study(thats fine) but after knowing that your something on had been swift yett u didnt get back to the person that u want he/she to teach u. So i srsly dun understand wad ppl are thinking bout esp when the national exams are coming yet u are not making that little effort. Thn when u didnt make it up to whr u want to be dun blame the chers thinking that they didnt teach u well, or blaming your friends for not teaching u.

Im still like lazing around and so on, but i did do my work. Well, at least im not that kind of person who blame other people rite?

Xuan's 8th Sotry: A Little Reflection For U And I....

Sometimes we blame other people when things get wrong, but did we ever think before that whether we are the other people that someone else had blamed on? Sometimes we people scold the other for doing things that aren't rite, but in the end we are the one that deserve a scolding too. Sometimes, we scold someone because he/she hurts someone, but did u/we realise that u r the one who is hurting other people as well. Sometimes, we ask/say people "CANT U PUT YOURSELF IN SOMEONE ELSE SHOES" , but did we put ourselves in someone else shoes when we met the same situation? Sometimes we say "why judge, but sometimes we are the one who are judging, or worse we judge more than the one we scold.

Ya, i'm saying all these thing like i'm a saint or i'm perfect, but i'm not, i'm just trying to say a please stop saying that u are selfless, keep asking why judge, why cant u put yourself in others' shoes and etc etc. Or try to say less of these. I know that we cant be possibly not saying all these cause i'm also doing and because we are all human beings. But the main thing that i cant stand is people keep think that they are the one being so reasonable(which i think that NOOOOOOO) but they dun know(i guess, cause the words coming out from their mouth or actions that they do doesn't shows that they know at all.)

I'm not trying to badmouth just that someone but just everyone, all human beings are selfish, everyone got to be selfish, if not how could be human beings. Don't ever say that u had never be selfish before, cause u will be lying. If we, human beings are not selfish, how could we excel, how could we fight for the things we want, how could we achieve anything, how could we do the things we want. There must be a time that we are selfish, just admit it, cause no one in this world is perfect. We are human beings that have feelings, thoughts.

So if u r one who keep on saying that u are'selfless' please stop, cause there is a time for u n I to be selfish for once or twice or more,if not in this current society we could not survive. 

For example, u are just being selfish when you:
- Expect your friend to accompany u to buy things when he/she are tired a not, and worst u know he/she was really tired.
- Don't want to be alone, you ask your friend to accompany u to take MRT(train) when she could have gone for a shorter way rather than going a big round.
- Are late, you felt that 'oh is alright for others to wait for me, is just a few mins(but actually no) and u curse someone for being late(esp bs).
- Say that other people being unreasonable, but u r the one as well.
- always assume that people can't make it and never ask he/her out but WHEN people assume you can't make it, you say that cant they ask?
- Blame others a lot more when u are in the wrong.
there is a lot more, but here are some that i can think of right now.

So let's just accept the fact that we are all human beings and no matter what we got to be selfish for that sometimes, because in this world now most people are fake. But of course let's try to be a better person by being to be selfless and try not to harm/hurt others as much as possible. Treat the other people well, is treating yourself well. Don't always try to be selfless just because u wanted to have a somewhat of' 'repay' cause by doing so u will never ever know the feeling of being happy through selfless.

Xuan's 7th story: Are u a true friend..

I have quite a number of friends, not too much and not too little. But when it come to who r the friends that are true to you and who r not, well i can onli say that it is onli a few. Well you might say that having a few true friends is good enough already as most of the ppl onli have 1. But some of my friends are really true to me but some of the actions or the things they do doesnt seems like wad a true friend will do to u. So i dun noe if i really have a true friend that will always be my side.

1) She will nvr wear your contact lens even though she noe that u most likely wont fit in your eyes.

2) She will nvr say that she dun have enough time to buy a present for u.

3) And give u a $1.70 chocolate when she say that sometimes when she give presents she will see the price one. And say that if u r my true friends like u i will buy a more expensive stuff for u. And thus repeat 3).

4) She will noe how you feels, even though u does not say.

5) And when u tells her that she does not noe she will not say that u nvr tell me how would i noe.

6) When u r sick n u lie on the bus, she would noe. And not say that 'wah, u got so tired uhh'.

So there is this friend who does this above and say that im her true friend.

Also there are some friends who does some things which really makes me upset, which idk how to explain here.

Yeahh, so.. Anw dun ever ever judge me bout the things that i blogged. Or even the $1.70 chocolate. Say bout give presents is bout the sincer but if i tell u she is someone who is fake or others things, wad would u say? (:

Thankyou for reading till the end, whether u like it anot, well, this is my blog, so do understand yeahh. 

Stay Happy Always. 

Xuan's 6th Story: ....

Hello ppls, i m blogging now in the middle of the night 2.40plus am going to be 3am soon. Idk when i'm going blog this post......
You might be like what the shit are u trying to do? blog in the middle of the night? are u crazy? u don't nid sleep? and etc etc.
Anw i can't sleep as i'm think bout some things recently. About my friend(this particular friend) and an so called incident happened during my 4th story(Jojakarta trip). Idk why i think of this suddenly, maybe is because i'm reflecting upon myself(ohmy when did i even do this, like since when or like u might think that oh r u sure u r reflecting or juz daydreaming or nightdreaming?).
Let's talk bout the Jojakarta incident, it is rather short, much shorter than 'this particular friend'. Okay so this goes on... ... We were on the 4th day of the trip where on of the activities we got to get into a rice field to try to plant some wheat and gain some experience, and know more bout the culture and etc etc. So after we get out of the paddy rice field our hands and legs were muddy so the ppl there led us to the river to wash our hands and legs. Yea, we go down the river few by few, and i get up when i'm done washing. Afterwards when i get up the river we nid to take our slippers(where we leave near the river) and wear. There was a a person in front of me or i didn't take my slippers immediately because there was someone there. Then suddenly this guy behind me was like 'Hurry up take your slippers and GET LOST' . Okay so i asked u a question, how would u feel when u first hear this? Angry? Sad? This is how i feel, u might think that he might be joking or he didn't mean it but let me ask u again, if u didn't noe a person well or u noe but u had nvr had a proper conversation with him before how would u feel? U might think that this is just a small matter and i making a big fuss bout it. But i'm someone who really hold grudes against ppl. i noe this is not good, my thinking is not right. I can onli say that i'm someone who cry easily.
You might think that it is really nth, but to me it isn't. I hope that after u had read my post please don't judge me like u had known me for ages. Even u do, i guess i can do nothing about it. I will not continue on this 'particular friend' on this blog post or even not going to blog bout it.
Anw thanks for reading my blog or thanks to those who had read it to the end. Have a great day ahead, don't get over too much bout this post, it will not make your day happy. Be happy!! (:

Xuan's 5th Story: A brand New Year

Hello people, this is the first blogpost of this year, 2014 and also the 5th story of TheXuan's Story. So yeahh, basically this post is about new year resolutions. Hahas, quite a lot of people do this right? Okay buyt anw i will still do it as i felt that it is important to set your goals and everything ahead.

My first resolutions is to love more people as i always tend to hate people than to love someone. I know it will going to be hard but well i must try to do it. Secondly to do well in my exams, i would like to score much better so that i could secure the things that i want, which is the courses i want and the kind of future i want. Thirdly i want to love the people even more this year, as u know we, people always tend to neglect the loves one around us, in order not to regret we must cherish the time with our love ones and spend more time with them. Always try to put them infront of any other things. Just remember this "DON'T REGRET". I will and must love them even more than i always do. Fourthly to do better in my blogshop. hehe. So yeahh. A really short post but this is my resolutions, hope you guys enjoy this post and hope that you guys had done your resolutions already. Have a nice day ahead.

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Xuan's 4th Story : About Jojakarta....

Hello people i just came back from Jogjakarta, Indonesia, around a week ago and today i will be writing bout the things i saw there and learnt there.
Firstly i went there because i was being selected on a school trip to learn more about mainly humanities. Humanities include subjects like history and geography and some other subjects. Geography is about earth and natural. The highlight of the trip is none other than Mount Merapi, the world's youngest and the most active volcano. You might be wondering, how can it be? It is so dangerous, but well we will be only at the foothill of the volcano looking at it. So ya, haha. Okay i think i better get to the topic if not i will link it to else where. Haha....
We went to quite a lot of places like, Water Kesteel, Borobudur, Kraton.... But the most unforgettable ones i guess would be trying to plant the rice crops and the highlight Mount Merapi.
The planting rice crops made me learn that planting rice crops may seems to be easy but it is not at all. All the work before you even plant the crops are so tiring. Before you plant the crops u nid to turn over the mud then after that u need to flatten the mud and than plant them, but all the process need a lot of hardwork. This made me learnt that evrey rice grain is very important, as if not for them, we would not have a bowl of rice infront of us. Also im appreciate for the farmers, for their willingness to work under the hot sun and soaking their legs for a long period of time. You might say that they maybe got no other choice but some of them can choose to leave but they continue so im very appreciate of it.
The trip to the foothill of Mount Merapi made me know that living in Singapore is a really a fortunate thing. Because the villagers or the people living there live there with a risk, a risk that can cause their life anytime. We interview a stall vendor as it is one of our tasks and this made me know more about the people about the Mount Merapi. Some of them refuse to leave there even they are capable of leaving there, because their home is there. Some of them move to a city already but move back because if they do not move back they might not even survive in the city. Although there is siren to inform them that the volcano might erupt or is showing signs of erupting, but it will be hassle for them to move here and there. Not saying that people living there are very unfortunate, because they can get near to a beauty and there are benefits there. Mount Merapi is definitely a beauty to us as a tourist, but to the people who live around Mount Merapi, it can be either a beast to them when it erupts or a beauty when it is there peacefully.
Overall this trip made me learnt quite a lot of things for myself.

Xuan's 3rd Story : Save our "home"

Today story will be on "Saving our home". Basically is saving our earth. Without the earth there will be no home for every each of us, so before we want to protect our home lets start by saving the home that is for every living things.
Let's do our part by just doing some little act. Even by just saving a piece of paper also helps. You might think its not going to help, what does one piece of paper could do to harm the earth. But did u know that just everyday saving one piece of paper how much did u save in a year and if everyone of us here who like to waste tons of paper do the same, does it makes a different now? By saving the paper means that lesser trees would have to been cut down, and these trees could help in asborbing the carbon dioxide and this could prevent the greenhouse gases to become thicker.
There are more things we could do, just like even saving one plastic bag could also help.
And the temperature would not have to increse by one degree. One degree makes a lot of difference, you might think that it is nothing but look:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pm6hkAPxWqQ

Video credit not mine . (:

From this video you would know that how just increasing of one temperature could change the world. There are six parts to this video, this is just one of it and it is the first degree. 

So let's do our part, even one tiny act could help.